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Preparing for the Unexpected: Legal Planning Before Your Student Returns to Campus
July 29, 2026
Authors
John H. Ramsey
Director, Boston
jramsey@goulstonstorrs.com+1 617 574 4134
Kerry L. Spindler
Director, Boston
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Between shopping for essentials and preparing for move-in day, it's easy to overlook an important reality: once a student turns 18, you no longer have the legal authority to make healthcare or financial decisions on their behalf or access certain records without their permission. Taking a few simple legal steps before they head to campus can provide peace of mind for both students and the parents, guardians, or other trusted individuals who may need to assist them.
Medical Information
Once your child reaches age 18, they are deemed to be an adult by law, and you no longer have a legal right to make health care decisions on behalf of your child or to access your child’s health care information. As a result, if you have an adult child, your child must execute certain legal documents naming you as their health care agent and permitting you to access their medical information.
Your child must execute a “Health Care Proxy” naming you as their agent for health care decisions. In this document, your child authorizes you to make health care decisions on your child’s behalf if they become unable to make or communicate such decisions themself. The child may also share their own wishes regarding medical treatment.
Your child must also sign a “HIPAA Authorization Form.” The Health Insurance Portability & Accountability Act of 1996 (generally known as “HIPAA”) protects the privacy of an individual’s medical information, and health care providers may require written consent from a patient to share information with family members, including parents of an adult child.
Your child’s college or university may also have policies in place preventing it from sharing medical information without the student’s consent. This form will serve as written permission authorizing those providing health care services to your child to share medical information with you as your child’s health care agent.
In addition, you should be in contact with the health services department of your child’s college or university. The institution may provide its own form for authorizing the release of medical information that can be kept on record with the institution’s health services department.
Financial Accounts
If you are to have the ability to act on behalf of your adult child with respect to financial matters, your child also needs to execute a “Durable Power of Attorney” naming you as your child’s agent with respect to the child’s assets and finances. If your child is attending college away from home, is studying abroad, or undergoes a medical emergency, it may be useful for you to access your child’s accounts on their behalf. This allows you to pay bills for a child out of their accounts, make deposits, and open or close accounts. In addition, a durable power of attorney allows you to handle other financial tasks for the child, like filing tax returns or renewing a lease.
Educational Records
Finally, the Family Educational Rights and Privacy Act (FERPA) protects the educational records of a child who has turned 18 or is enrolled at a postsecondary institution from access by their parents. If the child’s parents claim the child as a dependent on their tax returns, the parents may still access the child’s education records without the child’s consent. However, institutions may be reluctant to allow access to education records for any child over the age of 18 without a “FERPA Waiver” signed by the child, regardless of their status as a dependent. If you would like to have access to your child’s educational records, you should contact the institution to request a FERPA Waiver form.
Assembling these documents is not difficult, and doing so should provide peace of mind for you and your college student.
Please contact your usual Goulston & Storrs attorney or a member of our Private Client & Trust Group if you would like to discuss any of the information detailed in this alert.
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